She wants to fly,
she wants to study,
she wants to take care of her family,
she wants to have her own identity,
she wants to make friends,
she wants to fall in love,
she have dreams in her eyes..
which don't let her sleep till mid-night,
Then what is it, that is stopping her to fulfill it??
Any answer to this?
Well, the main intention to write today is there are few things on my mind which are eating my day up wondering about questions for which m not getting to the conclusion.Can she live her life on her own terms and conditions?
A lady falling in love, be it single, divorced, engaged or into a live-in, isn't she seen and tattle-red in our society?
Doesn't she have the right to do what she really wants to do and achieve?
What is it with society? Even if we believe in our own strengths we want people to believe in us. You know how much a girl turning into twenties is being pressurized by her family, society, neighbors etc? That's why might be we are soo emotionally strong because we start experiencing these mental pressure at very early stage.
Many women think their life is dependent on a Man. Well, m no different. But then at the back of my mind i still feel that i dont need anyone to be dependent on. 2 people come together to achieve one path in the journey of life and not to be a burden on the other person. Lucky are the people who have a family supporting crucial decisions of their life.
A girl begging on the road in the day time and giving herself to the hands of someone to live in this harsh society. A girl, married with the richest man in the world, has everything she wants but still feel empty inside. A girl, living her life on her terms and conditions, have to go through the opposition of her family as they think a women is to be groomed for a man of her life and not to go ahead in her career. A girl, who is dumped by a guy so many times but still keeps loving and falling for the same person. A girl, who accepts her partners family however it is and believes to live her life happily. A girl turning into a daughter in law, a mother, a sister carries the most softest feeling for every relation but sometime she doesnt get what she is deserved to be.
Womens quit their career to set up a new life with a new family .But i guess, here is where she takes a wrong turn. A lady bonds herself as she grow old, especially House wives..Are they given equal respect..forget respect..do their opinion even matters in the family? Most of the women who have decided to give their full time to the family after certain age are neglected by their childrens and husbands. A family who doesnt even bother to understand what are her likes n dislikes..a husband who at the end of d day treats her like "ghar ki murgi daal barabar", how she must b feeling.. hurted isnt it? Taking so mucch effort to look into smallest detail for her family, to make their life easy, what does she get at the end? Not even one appreciation from anybody..
I need an answer. When will you people start respecting and appreciating the birth of a women, when she is the one who have taken the charge of giving it all to you. Yes you, the one who is reading this article. Get back and appreciate every women around you. There is a story behind every women who is hidden behind the bars of that strong lady.
