Hitting on the blog post after ages.
Note: This is a 2015 blog written, which is published in 2017
M married.
Huge word and there is a big storm which always blow up my mind when i say this. 'M married'.
Don't get married till the the time you are not ready mentally. This is very important, because you dont want to regret in life or blame your partner for the things which were not fulfilled because of marriage. And if you are a girl, you are never going to be the same again.
Yes m married!
This term has brought me to terms with the society, people and my newly changed husband with whom i was in love with for the past 10 years.
I want to tell this to each and every girl out there who is in love with their beau since years and years 'You dont know yet what this guy is'.
When your beau becomes a husband, he is just another man who wants everything in hand and will enjoy the TV show when you are sweating in the kitchen to fill his stomach. (You can hire a maid, if you want to have your life sorted. Now i have one - 2017)
Yes m married!
My in laws, i have not yet understood what are my feelings for them, Do i like them, or do i hate them, or do i just want to run away from them, or do i want to just ignore them? (IGNORE THEM, if you can't come in terms with them - 2017)
When a girl gets married, she is from nobody's family, she have to create her own family because once she marry someone she is no more a part of her own family and the new family is yet to know her. So when u get married, you have to be like ' m from nowhere'.
Yes m married.
if you are a working women then you will be respected by your in laws, husband and your family as well, but if you are not, dude.. it is easy for your husband to let you down many times and let you know that he earns not you.
Yes m married.
When m alone, i think, what would i been doing at this time and i have many things to say. I wanted to travel India, say hi to mountains, jump into the sea and say hi to birds, stay up in the tree house, go for a back pack trip every month, shop myself all the necessary tools for travelling, share my experiences with my friends, party every friday and spend the weekend for family and mee time, and much more. But yes, i was not able to do all that. because when i just started to do all that, my parents let me get married to my bf.
Yes i do love him, but more than him i loved my fredom which i had to give up and take up a new responsibility and new burden. Because being a free spirited person may make people think bad about you as per our parents thoughts. I still wish to complete my dreams. (I have a kid who is 1 year old & m trying to complete all my dream, taking my husband in confidence - 2017)
Note: This is a 2015 blog written, which is published in 2017
M married.
Huge word and there is a big storm which always blow up my mind when i say this. 'M married'.
Don't get married till the the time you are not ready mentally. This is very important, because you dont want to regret in life or blame your partner for the things which were not fulfilled because of marriage. And if you are a girl, you are never going to be the same again.
Yes m married!
This term has brought me to terms with the society, people and my newly changed husband with whom i was in love with for the past 10 years.
I want to tell this to each and every girl out there who is in love with their beau since years and years 'You dont know yet what this guy is'.
When your beau becomes a husband, he is just another man who wants everything in hand and will enjoy the TV show when you are sweating in the kitchen to fill his stomach. (You can hire a maid, if you want to have your life sorted. Now i have one - 2017)
Yes m married!
My in laws, i have not yet understood what are my feelings for them, Do i like them, or do i hate them, or do i just want to run away from them, or do i want to just ignore them? (IGNORE THEM, if you can't come in terms with them - 2017)
When a girl gets married, she is from nobody's family, she have to create her own family because once she marry someone she is no more a part of her own family and the new family is yet to know her. So when u get married, you have to be like ' m from nowhere'.
Yes m married.
if you are a working women then you will be respected by your in laws, husband and your family as well, but if you are not, dude.. it is easy for your husband to let you down many times and let you know that he earns not you.
Yes m married.
When m alone, i think, what would i been doing at this time and i have many things to say. I wanted to travel India, say hi to mountains, jump into the sea and say hi to birds, stay up in the tree house, go for a back pack trip every month, shop myself all the necessary tools for travelling, share my experiences with my friends, party every friday and spend the weekend for family and mee time, and much more. But yes, i was not able to do all that. because when i just started to do all that, my parents let me get married to my bf.
Yes i do love him, but more than him i loved my fredom which i had to give up and take up a new responsibility and new burden. Because being a free spirited person may make people think bad about you as per our parents thoughts. I still wish to complete my dreams. (I have a kid who is 1 year old & m trying to complete all my dream, taking my husband in confidence - 2017)
