Wednesday, 14 September 2011

A new feeling


I was stuck to it for months and years. But not now. I dont know what changed in me. I want to rejoice this moment of realization of being free and independent. I don't have the baggage of how the other person will think if i do something wiered. Its so freeking awesome to know that i have got back my wings and m upto fly. With no directions ahead but it has to be made.

I want to be just myself without pretending that m fine or happy. I will not be compromising any of my wishes just to make it special. I can walk and dance and live my life on my terms and conditions. There is no emotional trauma or baggage which m going to carry and just be as carefree as possible.

There is not going to be any lying to anybody about anything. No expectations and no restrictions. Do what so ever i ever want to do and roam with anybody as its not going to be anybody's business now. Look good to flaunt it and feel good about myself and not to impress anybody. No freaking compromises of sleeps for those stupid talks and have a fresh morning all together.

Focus more on present things then thinking of moments which are not going to be back together. I need to take care of myself to be independent and practical about the whole idea of life. M going to take decision for my life and nobody else. No bossing around and no domination. Have as many eye contacts as possible and look around for those eye candies and nobody will even stop you to do that.lol.

This is a new feeling which m enjoying it and wants to enjoy it as much as possible...!!
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Monday, 12 September 2011

An empty mind is a devils place.




Idleness means you have no particular goal in mind and thus you can be easily distracted. It happens with most of us that we suddenly start behaving so weird with a particular person or regarding a particular situation that we forget we were never like this.

We all have strange ideas and our brain is churning 24*7 non stop. Empty minds can generate thoughts on a particular incident occurred or intended to be occuring in the near future. Recently i was recalling few incidents and i came to realize that half of the decision we take in our lives is when our minds are empty.

Does it ever happened to you, that when you don't have anything to do, you start thinking about something so intensely that you are obsessed about it in no time and gradually starts dreaming about it. We conjure up all sorts of thoughts that can scare us or make us crazy. It sometimes irritates you and sometimes dreamy.

You end up hurting un-intentionally to alot many people thinking that its just a dream or a movie where everyhting at the end is going to be fine . But in todays movies sometimes there are no happy endings.

Similarly, in real life, if you fail to come out of this break of empty mind soon, then you are sure to miss alot of things and then later regret what you have missed in life. Take a break but not too long, work hard but make sure its smart, go on holiday to refresh and not to be alone in the corner of the world.

Life is beautiful. If you dont have friends no problemo, you have books to read, music to enjoy, places to explore, legs to walk and get tired at the end of the day to sleep peacefully. All you have to do is think creative ways to come out of it.

You are special. I'm special and nobody, even the empty mind of the other person have the right to hurt me.

I don't know, it made sense or not. But it surely did to me so sharing it.
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Saturday, 3 September 2011

Stories Connected..

Story 1:


There was a small girl named raina. One day, she saw her mom cooking a nice pomfret for dinner. Raina went to the kitchen and told her that i want to learn how to make this. Her mom agrees to her and starts explaining the process, and in that process she tells her that the pomfret should be cut in 3 pieces. So immediately raina asked ma “But why it has to be in 3 pieces?". Mom replies "Because it has to be in 3". Raina again insisted on "Why". So raina's mother calls up her mother to ask "why is the pomfret cut in only 3 pieces and not more than that?" The grandmother replies “Because my mother taught me to cut in 3 pieces. And there was no specific reason for that.” Co-incidentally, raina's great grandmother was still alive, so her mother called her and asked "why was the pomfret cut in 3 pieces only?" she replied "because we had a small fry pan at that time, that is the reason we cut it into 3 pieces. But now when you have big fry pans you can cut into as many pieces as you want."

So guys did anybody got the conclusion of this overall story?

Conclusion: Reason is man's tool of understanding. Reason is the process of thinking. Reason requires clear, identifiable building blocks. It uses ideas, memories, emotions and sensory input. Today we get into anything aimlessly. We get started with any organization not knowing the steps and process of it, or either says any course which you know if completed it will give you name, fame, money. You know the end result but what about the steps, hard work, knowledge involved in it. People today opt for CS, CA, UPSC only because they see BIG money, do they know why they want to do CS or CA? Many of my friends do it. But when they complete the whole course they realize they were better for something else. We have so many options available, and we can make money out of anything. So many options have made the entire youngster’s life left in confused frame of mind. What to do exactly. And most of us go what either our parents say or do something what our friends are opting or if not either then see people who have made money out of anything and achieved success. But dude. Take a break, think what you want to do and why. Here "Why" is really important.

Story 2:

You take an orange and pierce it what will come out?
Answer: orange juice.



Take a mango and pierce it, what will come out?
Answer: Mango pulp.

Conclusion: Whatever is there inside comes out when it is pressurized. For example; a group of friends are enjoying their time in the evening, pulling each other’s leg. One of them in the group had a really bad day at work or he is going through some tension suppose, he is showing off that he is fine and normal, but one of your friend starts pulling his leg, the very moment he gets up and speaks up something which intoxicated the whole fun of the evening. It was not because he didn’t like it, but it was in where he wanted to take it out somewhere or other. In the corporate world when you are given a work you don’t like to do, even after putting in efforts, you were not able to be up to the mark, because it was of not of your interest. So, why to hide up those tension and frustration deep inside, when all you want to do is share and reduce the load of pressure.

Story 3:




Once SONIA GANDHI, L.K. Advani and Laloo Prasad Yadav were travelling in an autorickshaw. They met with an accident and all three of them died. Yama Raja was waiting for this moment at the doorstep of death. He asks Mrs. GANDHI and Advani to go to HEAVEN. But, for Laloo, Yama had already decided that he should be sent to HELL. Laloo is not at all happy with this decision. He asks Yama as to why this discrimination is being made. All the three of them had served the public. Similarly, all took bribes, all misused public positions, etc. Then why the differential treatment? He felt that there should be a formal test or an objective evaluation before a decision is made; and should not be just based on opinion or pre-conceived notions. Yama agrees to this and asks all the three of them to appear for an English test. Mrs GANDHI is asked to spell “INDIA” and she does it correctly. Advani is asked to spell " ENGLAND " and he too passes. It is Laloo's turn and he is asked to spell " CZECHOSLOVAKIA ".Laloo protests that he doesn't know English. He says this is not fair and that he was given a tough question and thus forced to fail with false intent. Yama then agrees to conduct a written test in Hindi (to give another chance assuming that Laloo should at least feel that Hindi would provide an equal platform for all three).Mrs GANDHI is asked to write "KUTTA BOLA BHOW BHOW". She writes it easily and passes. Advani is asked to write "BILLY BOLI MYAUN MYAUN". He too passes. Laloo is asked to write "BANDAR BOLA GURRRRRR....."Tough one. He fails again. Laloo is extremely unhappy. Having been a student of history (which the other two weren't),he now requested for all the 3 to be subjected to a test in history. Yama says OK but this would be the last chance and that he would not take any more tests. Mrs GANDHI is asked: "When did India get Independence?". She replied "1947" and passed. Advani is asked "How many people died during the independence struggle?”. He gets nervous. Yama asked him to choose from 3 options: 100,000 or 200,000or 300,000.Advani catches it and says 200,000 and passes. It’s Laloo's turn now. ‘Yama asks him to give the Name and Address of each of the 200,000 who died in the struggle. Laloo accepts defeat and agrees to go to HELL.

Moral of the story: IF YOUR MANAGEMENT HAS DECIDED TO SCREW YOU, THERE IS NO ESCAPE....!
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